The last few months have been spent interviewing and mentoring hundreds of entrepreneurs world-wide (as part of my business and also for my upcoming book). At least 90% had some key recurring beliefs that were FALSE!

And that’s exactly why I’ve written this must-read post. I’ve been making waves in my industry debunking many of these myths – I’m about to address 3 of them right now in this article!

Are you a busy entrepreneur who thinks you don’t have time for a love life? How do you expect things to change if you never take action? Last time I checked, FedEx is not in the business of shipping dates to your doorstep. That would be lovely though, sigh…

Whether you want a travel partner, companionship, more dates, a long-term relationship or want to get married, here’s an easy way to start. The good news is that it only takes minutes!

No more excuses. Let’s dive in and debunk the myths that have making your love life fizzle!

Entrepreneur Dating Myth #1: Online Dating is Time-Consuming.

Entrepreneur Dating Fact:

Online Dating can be quick, simple and successful if you have a plan. Try the “30-Minute Email Plan”. Dedicate 15 minutes a day, twice a week, to answering email. For example, Sunday is a great day to answer e-mail if you’d like to have a date lined up for the next weekend. Wednesday is mid-week and by then you may have some offers for the weekend or the following week. Stick to this simple schedule and you won’t get worn out.

Quick Tip – Don’t worry about men who fret if you take 2 or 3 days to read and respond. They are NOT compatible with your lifestyle and they will auto-vet themselves in the process. This is not about playing games – you’re a busy entrepreneur! Patience and understanding are key characteristics your ideal guy must have.

Entrepreneur Dating Myth #2: Instant Messenger is a quick way to connect with a man to see if he’s your type.

Entrepreneur Dating Fact:

Avoid Instant Messenger at all costs because it typically attracts low quality men who waste your time, leaving you exhausted and fed up. There are plenty of lonely (and married) men who will IM chat you forever. Men should be qualified before you give them that amount of direct interaction. A man who is truly interested in you will ask to speak with you almost immediately – or in 2 or 3 emails.

Actually, a quick chat on the phone as soon as possible is the best way to see if there is a connection. Why? It would be a shame to spend weeks emailing back and forth only to find out there is no connection when you speak live.

Quick Tip – Have men phone you first but keep your number private.

During a session, a woman wanted to know how to let a man phone her first without giving out her number. This is a major concern for many women.

I suggest you get a local number from Skype or another service and route it to your cell phone. That way a man can call you first and you never have to give out your private number until you feel comfortable.

Entrepreneur Dating Myth #3: It is hard to meet men during the week.

Entrepreneur Dating Fact:

Take a more creative look at how to schedule your time. Who said you have to go out at night? You can meet during the day. This is a great solution most overlook. You have to eat or take a break during the day anyway, so why not meet for a quick lunch or coffee a 5-minute taxi ride away from your home or office?

It is less intimate, so there is no “date pressure” and you don’t have to “make time”. Plus, if you don’t click, no worries – you have to get back to work.

There you have it – 3 entrepreneur dating myths exposed and debunked. Listen to my complimentary audios to increase your magnetic attraction (in personal and business) download them now at: http://magneticmojo.com

About Rhonda Cort:

With over 10 years experience living and working internationally with entrepreneurs, CEOs, diplomats and influential people on 6 continents, mentor, speaker and author Rhonda Cort unleashes your powerful presence to quickly, naturally and magnetically attract successful, top quality people to accelerate your business and personal life.

Make sure you download Rhonda’s complimentary audios “Magnetic Goddess Secrets” for powerful magnetism in your personal life and the “Mojo Acceleration” audio mini-course for entrepreneurs who want to create an almost instant know, like and trust connection. Download them now at: http://magneticmojo.com

Increasing workloads are forcing people to spend more time in the office, even when the office is at home. This means that many parents are unable to stay involved in their children’s lives as they develop, and are becoming mere spectators instead of loving role models. The result is an undermining of their relationships, higher stress levels, a lack of balance and a generally unfulfilled life.

However, this should not be the case. Working at home allows greater freedom and independence and should result in less time being wasted. Yet many of us fail to successfully make this transition. Discipline is a key factor when running a business from home… and believe me; I know what I’m talking about as I am one of the thousands of business owners who enjoy the benefits and also the challenges of as a home-based business owner.

DISTRACTIONS DETRACT
One of my clients used to run his own successful accounting practice from home. With pre-school children and trying to grow his business, he and his wife used to get very frustrated with the fact that they could never remove themselves from the workplace. They felt their business totally overwhelmed them and caused many challenges which affected their personal relationships.

We were able to identify exactly where their time was being spent and found that there were simple ways they could do more in their growing business and still have a life. Three years later with the growth of their practice they have had to move their business to new premises.

Here are seven ways you can successfully work from home and enjoy the benefits…

1. ESTABLISH A ROUTINE
Structure your day so that it is both purposeful and productive. Decide on a starting and finishing time for your day; allow for breaks so that you work smarter, not harder. Doing this will also allow you to better differentiate between work and home, and will encourage you to be more professional.

2. FOCUS ON YOUR STRENGTHS, OUTSOURCE YOUR WEAKNESSES
Spend the maximum amount of time working on the parts of your business that you are best at. If your billable time is worth $200 an hour, then make sure you spend most of your time on the activities that will produce that for you.
If you don’t want to employ an administrative assistant, invest in a virtual assistant who works off-site. Avoid filling up your day with non-productive activities. Invest your time and money into the right areas of your business; don’t just keep yourself busy.

3. ORGANISE YOUR ENVIRONMENT
Have the right tools and systems to work with - an appropriate chair, desk, computer, filing system. This will make you look, feel and act more professionally. In addition, if a client comes to your home, your professionalism will inspire confidence in you.

4. DECLUTTER THE CLUTTER
A messy working environment which forces you to be continuously spending valuable time searching for things, whether files and emails on the computer or documents in filing cabinets and cupboards, cumulatively wastes hours a day. In fact The Wall Street Journal found that the average white collar worker spends 6 weeks a year looking for things around the office! Clutter is distracting and causes stress, and it is the primary enemy of productivity.

5. LEARN TO SAY ‘NO’
Inform your family and friends of your working hours and that because you’re working from home doesn’t mean you’re ‘available’. If you were in a corporate office, you would not allow your friends to drop by. Enforce these same rules at your office at home.

6. NETWORK TO EXPAND YOUR BUSINESS AND YOUR MIND
Join local networking groups to meet other like-minded business people. Share knowledge and discover new ways of doing things. Check out your local council and chamber of commerce. Enquire about active small business networks.

Join your own trade association and share ideas. An organised business referral group like BNI can also be of enormous benefit to the home based business owner.

And without leaving home you can become part of www.theproductivitycoachingclub.com to stimulate your brain and keep you up-to-date in how to run your business more effectively and improve your lifestyle.

7. TAKE TIME OUT FOR YOU
It can be easy to lose yourself in your work. Take time to ’smell the roses’ and to make human contact. When I’m spending the day working from home, I always go out for a walk at lunch-time. Plan time to have coffee or lunch with a friend or colleague once a week. Go for a walk every day. Have a weekly or fortnightly massage. Visit the gym more often.

THE FINAL WORD
These ideas are simple… and guess what? It’s generally the simple ideas when acted upon consistently that will make a dramatic impact overall in your business and your life. You’ll feel happier and more fulfilled. You’ll also discover extra time in the day that you never had before.

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Lorraine Pirihi, The Productivity Queen, is founder of ProductivityQueen.com and creator of “The Productivity and Profit System™” … the proven step-by- step program that shows you exactly how to work less and earn more! To receive your F.R.E.E. CD “10 Habits of Highly Productive and Profitable People” valued at $47 by mail and weekly how-to articles to increase your productivity and your profits visit http://www.productivityqueen.com

By Guest Blogger Allison Maslan, CCH,  HHP

Did you know that from age twenty-five to sixty-five, we spend 73,600 hours at our work? And that 87 percent of Americans dislike their jobs? That means that 87 percent of Americans spend 73,600 hours in their lifetime doing something they don’t like. What a massive loss that is! Because every part of our lives has an influence on every other part of our lives, this could make for a lot of unhappy people. Why is this? Could it be that so many people have settled for because of fear or lack of direction when it comes to going after their dream career?

What is your purpose? Your destiny? Have you known for some time what you are meant to do for a career, but you just aren’t sure how to transfer it to real life? Are you still searching for that path you can call your very own? Everyone was blessed with certain gifts, talents and personality traits that can be transferred into a fulfilling, satisfying and financially prosperous line of work. Some people know from the get-go what they want to be when they grow up. Others, like me, find their purpose through an evolvement of life’s experiences and challenges. Either way, you come to find that it is perfectly right for you.

I truly believe that you have the full potential to pinpoint, develop and achieve your dream career. Yes, you! One of the things that really saddens me is when I see someone with such potential for greatness, who is not allowing themselves to step into it and fully own it. I can share with you the important do’s and don’ts and give you valuable tools and support; however, you need to be the one to take that first step.

As you set out to find your purpose, or first commit to living a life of purpose, what drives you may still feel a bit elusive. Many people have no idea if they have a real purpose on earth. Ask a friend randomly what their life purpose is, and they may take a long pause before answering, “Good question. I’m not sure.” Well, I’m here to tell you (and them) that you do have a purpose and it’s probably not as mysterious as you think. Most likely it’s right under your nose. Maybe your purpose is to feed hungry children, build a gigantic bridge, love your children, or just be in the moment. Your life purpose is most likely connected to the areas that create passion and meaning in your life. Here are some simple steps for accessing your life purpose.

• Get in touch with what really matters to you in the world and in your life. What do you get passionate talking about, reading or exploring? Before taking impulsive action steps toward a new career, business opportunity, or new relationship, ponder what gives you that inner surge of excitement. This could be the most important key for long-term staying power and success.

• Gather your thoughts and focus your energy toward these ideas. Find a way to involve yourself in this activity.

• Explore several possibilities before settling on one. However, if one really moves you, then go for it!

• Connect with other people on a regular basis who are passionate about these ideals or activities.

• See how you feel in this new arena. Does it stir your passionate energy? This is what we call “alignment,” or “being congruent.” When we are expressing our true inner thoughts, beliefs and ideals through external actions that match those thoughts, beliefs and ideals, we are operating in harmony rather than in conflict. The “practice-what-you-preach” philosophy.

• Not doing what you ove could be very harmful to your health and your prosperity.
  

Most people think that doing what you love is a luxury, so they settle for something they don’t enjoy. Someone who loves your career more than you do will no doubt perform the job better than you. This person will eventually be greatly rewarded because this work matters to them. Part of what you’ll get from being out of alignment in your work is dissatisfaction and burnout.

I know you can do it. After all, it’s your greatness I am talking about.

Allison Maslan, HHP, CCH is a homeopathic physician and the author of Blast Off! The Surefire Success Plan To Launch Your Dreams Into Reality. As a life and business coach, she helps people create a new business and the best chapter of their lives. www.myblastoff.com/booklaunch.

Have you created a Facebook Fan Page but it’s fizzled?

Are you wanting to move your “business” conversations to a Fan Page so you can clean up your profile?

Are you concerned about how to manage yet another social media “idea” in the midst of everything else you have going?

Fan Pages on Facebook are becoming more popular everyday. As you near the 5K mark on your network of friends, you will need to migrate your peeps over to a page in order to continue to build your network and communicate effectively. But how do you “move” your friends over? And how do you keep them engaged and active on your page?

If you have created a Fan Page or are thinking about creating one, please take a minute to complete this quick survey. I will be hosting a teleclass on January 14th  where I will be answering your questions!

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With little time left before Santa arrives and many of us caught up in the hustle and bustle of gift giving, I’m making a special exception to my guest blogger guidelines and posting an amazing article by Maggie Keenan of givingadvice - You’ll find resourceful strategies to Give Back while doing some last minute holiday shopping. Enjoy! ~MaryPat

5 Steps to Give Meaning to Giving this Holiday Season

As the holidays approach once again, we fret and frantically rush and fight traffic to get presents for family, friends and co-workers. We make our list, some people are a lot harder than others to buy for—so we wind up with last minute shopping. Although, some of us have gotten a bit wiser and shop on-line right from the comfort of our home. Nevertheless, we still feel obligated to attend holiday cocktail get-togethers, progressive dinners, office parties and other functions, leaving little time to reflect on what we are buying or why we are REALLY going to parties.

This year, dare to do things a little different. Make this year’s season with all your giving of presents and time more meaningful. Here are some ways to do things different and make a difference at the same time.

1. Think about your Holiday gift giving list and the individuals on it and ask yourself, “What are some of the issues each person cares about?  What is important to them? Maybe someone wants to see a world without hunger, or another is concerned about literacy issues or finding a cure for a disease. Take a moment to create a list where each person is matched to a cause that you know they are passionate about. For the past few years, I’ve stopped buying presents for a few friends who I know are agriculturally-conscious. Instead they get a Share of Sheep, a Flock of Chicks from Heifer International. It feels great to give a gift that my friends like, that provides a better life for a family, and makes me feel like I helped to make a difference. You can visit them at www.heifer.org.
2. Send only holiday gift cards that benefit a charity. Most nonprofits have special holiday donation cards.
3. Skip out on the office party this year or forgo the progressive dinner.  Suggest to co-workers or friends to take that time and volunteer to wrap presents for a local organization that will give families in need gifts or perhaps, offer to deliver a meal to seniors, or help to serve at a holiday breakfast. Better yet, if you enjoy the festivities of holiday parties, consider making your office party one that  makes a difference and gives back to a cause.  There’s a great reason to attend!
4. Shop on-line for gifts that support a cause. I mentioned in a previous ezine about Up Town Liz.  I love this website as it offers special products that are great for gift giving while giving back at the same time. Visit www.uptownliz.com.
5. Lastly, resolve to make next year one that you will give a little more than you did this year. Increase it by just two percent. A company can have staff volunteer as a group at a charitable event—and wear your company t-shirts. If one of your resolutions is to take up exercise, consider training for a run that supports a charity. A few friends of mine recently took golf lessons— we wanted to learn golf and enter next year’s 24 Wishes in 24 Hours for Make A Wish Foundation.

Remember, the season is about giving.  Make this year one where you give meaning to it.

Maggie F. Keenan, Ed.D. is the Owner & Chief Giving Strategist of givingadvice^TM dedicated to providing strategic philanthropy services to small business. Through givingadvice^TM, Maggie guides businesses through a Six Step Giving IMPACT Strategy model^TM to provide a blueprint and giving strategy that is unique for each client.  She knows that businesses can make stronger and synergistic connections between their business and causes. Clients are most attracted by her passion and vision for what she sees possible for their contribution to the world.  With an uncanny ability to connect ideas, people and causes, Maggie sees opportunities all around for anyone that desires to be a force for change and businesses can play a role in that change.

Posted with permission. Copyright ©  2007. Maggie F. Keenan, Ed.D.  All rights reserved.

As a JV expert and someone who cares about the relationships, I like to know what drives you in different situations. So here is my quick question of the month:

What’s your #1 motive for sharing someone else’s promotions? 

This survey is only one question so it will only take 15 seconds of your time and will really help me out! Feel free to answer here or click through the link above and answer anonmously!

Thanks a bunch!

Now that we have covered the top 2 goals that most entrepreneurs have set this year for their social media activities, what’s left?

Goal #3: Leverage my relationships to build my business!

If you are like most of my friends, you completely understand that building relationships is the #1 key to success. You know that one relationship can increase your visibility, build your credibility, drive tons of targeted traffic to your site, and even bring you happy people who buy your services-over and over again. 

But you have reached out, created some partnerships, and left feeling like you got the short end of the stick.

It doesn’t have to be that way. When you have the right pieces in place, have the right conversations with the right people, you can create wonderful relationships with people you love and who love you-even after your “promotion” is completed.

Wouldn’t that be nice?

Here are three tips to get you on track for creating happy, profitable relationships:

1. Make sure the partnership and the opportunity “feel” right. I don’t know how to say it any other way, but use your gut! Even if you love the person, it may not be the right opportunity at this time. Trust yourself!
2. Get your entire agreement down on paper. A conversation is not enough when something goes astray. You need to discuss all the “what if’s” before you start building a product or promoting an event.
3. Communicate! Yes, this may be basic, but when partnerships start to go haywire, people quit talking. Don’t fall into this trap. Make time for your partner and always be respectful. This is like a temporary marriage of sorts.

For more information about JV management and consulting, including JV Crisis Management and Mediation, let’s talk. Call or email me at (877) 716-1469 or marypat@queenofmarketing.com and we can schedule a quick consultation.

The first goal that many people active in social media right now have is turning your network into revenue-generating traffic. For tips on how you can achieve that goal in the next 10 weeks, catch our last post.

And here’s the #2 Goal:

Goal #2:  Spend less time social networking and more time making money!

Here are five tips to save tons of time on your social networking:

1. Block out 15 minutes each day for this activity
2. Know what you are doing: posting on walls? Making new connections? Sending birthday wishes? This will help you target your time and not get distracted.
3. Create a system for what to do and when: accept friend requests on Mondays & Thursdays, respond to messages on Tuesdays & Fridays, build new friends & post on walls on Wednesdays.
4. Don’t do it yourself! If you have a system, why can’t your VA or even your teen help out?
5. Turn your virtual friends into real friends! Pick up the phone at least twice each week to talk to some of your new friends. Build those relationships now before you need to sell something. Promotions will be much easier later on.

For more assistance with your social networking to save time, build relationships and start making money, check out the KickStart Coaching program. This program dives into a different topic each month to help use social media to build relationships and even offers private coaching as well.

Did you set goals for 2009? Where are you at? Here are 3 popular goals with some tips to help you achieve these goals in the next 12 weeks!

Goal #1: Turn my social networking friends into buyers.

Here are 5 steps to social media success that work for everyone, no matter your business or your personality!

1. Build a profile that ATTRACTS the right people.
2. Build your network with quality, not quantity. Make sure you know who you want to connect with. It’s about strategy and it’s not random.
3. Build your visibility through activities like wall posts and comments and having conversations.
4. Build your credibility through sharing good information-yours and others.
5. Build traffic by blogging, integration and good conversations (yes, conversations warrant being listed twice)

It’s not too late to participate in my “30 Days to Create & Automate a Traffic Generating System” This is a 4 week bootcamp where I teach you my step-by-step proven system that takes your social networking, builds relationships and drives massive traffic to your site to buy your products and services.

Yes, this program started last week and we are recording all of the calls, so you won’t miss a thing if you can’t clear your schedule! For more information, check out the sales page now!

Blogging is a foundational tool in your online marketing campaign. And you should be blogging everyday if you can. This will build quick visiblity, credibility & traffic to your site. It can also drive traffic from your social networks into your marketing funnel when you do it the right way. In fact, if you need a kick in the pants for your blogging, it’s not too late to jump into my good friend, Sandra Martini’s 30 Day Blog Challenge–and it’s free!

But are you using your blog to build relationships?

Here are 3 simple ideas to take your blogging to a new level:

1. Live on the edge! Ask pointed questions that will inspire people to respond to your thoughts and your topic. When your readers respond, always acknowledge their responses–even when you don’t agree. These conversations may be the first steps in new connections.

2. Talk about others in your posts! I don’t want you spamming, but feel free to share other experts opinions on your blog. Add your own commentary, of course. Make sure to include a link to her original post or social media page for quick reference and then let her know you just mentioned her on your blog (sent her a Tweet or post on her Facebook wall/page).

3. Invite upcoming experts to be “Guest Bloggers” on your site. Make sure they are either writing original content for you or repurposing at least 30% of the content for your readers. Allow them to incl ude a small bio box and their photo at the end of their articles with a link. Quickly, you will have other experts promoting your site and thanking you for the opportunity to build their own audience! And we haven’t even gotten into the time-savings opportunities…

Do you see the win-win-win in each of these ideas? When you are leading from a place of “shared abundance” and you value your community and relationships in your business, great things will come!